jan 12-day review
it's been difficult i think having family over this time. there were just a lot of issues that surfaced all at the same time triggered by holiday stress, winding down the year, health issues and not getting things done because of the holiday delay. we fought a lot. A LOT. obnoxiously a lot. it was frustrating and irritating. ack thinking about it make me cringe right now. >=<
anyway, what have i accomplished this week?
- out of 42 to-do's on my new favorite free tool my ta-da lists, i have successfully killed off 20. that's roughly 48%. not too shabby
- on my personal goals: i have been fairly consistent in posting on craig's list for the business, drink 1L of water, killing off things off my to do list, commenting on blogs every day. but i have consistently failed to practice yoga.
- constantly refraining myself to put things off any longer by hacking down my unread blog posts and emails
- living more healthy and eating actually resonable portions (largely due to i am living by myself again)
things i discovered:
- joe's goals (very cool free tool)
- my ta-da lists (awesome cool free tool)
- it's okay to ask for testmonials (AWESOME!!) => i was super shocked when i asked this client who just used our services. i asked because he referred me to others and i was like, hmm, maybe i should ask him to write a quote for the newsletter! and he really gave me a much better idea of what i am doing right.
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- he liked we do deposit then final bill when projects are done => i am just thinking about changing it actually to cod because it takes f&*^*&^#^%#^ forever to actually get the last payment on time!
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- now considering taking credit card or electronic checks so i can just auto charge it mwah haha!
- he thought the pricing was reasonable
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- well, it's new year now and we have been in business for 1 year now, it's just time to raise the rates. also i have been investigating what my competitors charge, i under charge roughly $45 less per hour. now that's a lot on an average project of 10 hours! that's $450 i am cutting myself out of it. although i am not going to do a significant raise, i am at least going to raise $20 per hour
- similarily it's okay to ask what went wrong: i have this client who used me for couple times now but are not very good with corresponding with me so i alwasy feel like i am holding off this and that and putting other clients off because i was waiting to hear back on her confirmation. after couple times (which i notice is pretty similar as well with her team members), i notice that she just doesn't follow up with me because she is simply too busy. so i actually took the lead this time and asked why did the client not wanting to use our services? it wasn't painful really since it was purely they did not have the money to make up on the huge equity changes when they buy their next home. (however it was still annoying for me to drive 25 miles to san jose. because it's really 1 hour each way since there are traffic. they just really wanted to see how much it would cost. ack)
- i love conan obrien but i also need to rewire my sleep schedule. watching conan is causing me to be a night owl and don't actually wake up till 11am
- this blog is actually helping me thinking aloud and recently all these online tools have been helping me to be more organized and cutting down the bad habit of putting things off. it's a bit of brain dump really. but hey, whatever works works!
some behavioral changes this year so far:
- eating out less
- start to lose the desires to spending $$$ on crap i really don't need (i think all these money blogs i have been reading are really brainwashing me)
- more organized finances
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- i have set up seperate accounts & credit cards to seperate different business & personal money
- call up my main credit cards (really my business ones since they are really all i use now) to increase my limits => success! i have doubled the limits on both of my business cards ($10,000 each. well now really all that much but it will help to not to get overlimit fees when i buy inventory) and now i have decreased my debt ratios. that's pretty great. hopefully this well push up my credit score eventually. this past year have been difficult to redevelope my credit. i feel so rejected whenever i ask for a higher limit because i just kept on buying inventory!
- actually eating what i bought at the grocery store. for example, i used to buy tons of things on sale.. and end up going crazy and forgot to look at expiration dates. and of course, how can i possibly eat 20 yogurts in 3 days?! so far i have been pretty good about it and i consume whatever is in the fridge before i go out and do more impulse buy
- i am slowly learning that it is okay to draw boundaries with clients, i don't have to be a people pleaser all the time. i have my own time & schedules (and more importantly, my issues) as well. i need my own time. and sometimes i just cannot accomadate everyone
things that need improvement:
- i am incredibly not good about delivering pricing proposals on time; THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE!!!
- still need to work on more ways to get clients.
- i should follow up with pricing proposals that i hand out and follow up with rave reviews as well. i should find out what works and what does not work.
- i should slowly try to do some physical activities and get back to practicing yoga. or it's really a waste of all the time to build up the practice and have it become rusty because of lack of practice!

) comparing to me who works a flexible schedule and in charge of my destiny.